From lost and lonely after your divorce to loving life!

Starting over after a divorce in midlife is daunting and scary.

The divorce doesn't just end a relationship, it leaves you questioning everything about who you are.

For years you were a wife and partner. The one who held everything together.

But now your home feels different, your routines have changed and your children are growing up and need you less.

And you're left thinking, who am I now, where do I fit and how do I start over again?

You're trying to figure it out but all you feel is lonely and that somehow you've lost yourself somewhere along the way.

Awaken Her Magic is here to change all that.

Hi, I'm Rachel

I created this process because I've lived it.

I got divorced as I turned 50 after 25 years together and 3 children.

My kids were all leaving home and

at the same time I moved to a new town.

As my final order came through the silence in the house, the total isolation and the grief of losing my marriage hit me and I had a breakdown.

It took me nearly a year to put myself back together but I did it!

Now I feel calm in my own home, I enjoy my own company and I've built a life that I truly love and feels like mine.

Awaken Her Magic Signature Course

A step by step course designed specifically for women who have recently divorced in midlife (45+).

Inside you'll follow a guided process to help you move from feeling grieving the life you thought you'd be living now to creating a peaceful life, that makes you feel joyful and alive every day.

You can work through it at your own pace, in your own time but you'll always know what you need to do next.

In the Awaken Her Magic Signature Course we'll use my signature 5 Rs to

Make sense of what's happened in your marriage

Accept what happened and to let go of the past

Remember who you really are and what you want

Feel more emotionally steady, and fully in control

Start building a life you love that actually lights you up and feels like yours

The '5 Rs' journey

We'll use the 5 Rs to work through the process, taking you from grief to joy.

Relax - Understand the importance of relaxation and learn techniques that will help you to think clearly and feel steady again

Review - Understand what happened without getting stuck in the past

Remember - Reconnect with who you are outside of your roles as a wife and mother

Reclaim - Take back control of your time, choices and direction of your life

Rise - Move forward with confidence into a future that feels truly yours.

This isn't about becoming someone new, this is about becoming someone you recognise again.

Just imagine :

  • Getting to wake up and choose happiness and your own new routines every single day

  • Falling in love with your own company and feel so settled in your new home.

  • Being free to see your friends whenever you choose and live like your 20 year old self but better!

  • Feeling calmer, clearer and more emotionally steady

  • Feeling peaceful each evening, happy in your own company, able to rest and relax

  • Picking up old forgotten hobbies or even start some new ones.

  • Feeling excited about the prospect of building whatever life you want for yourself now.

Whilst it might not feel like it now, this is the most exciting time for you.

You get to choose what happens next and you get to create your life on your terms.

This is for you if...

  • You feel lost or unsure who you are after your divorce

  • You're grieving not only your marriage but the version of yourself and what you thought your matting would look like in the future

  • You feel like it's 'too late' or you're 'too old' to start over or that you've 'missed the boat'

  • You're experiencing feelings you never expected to have and you're not sure what to do with them

  • You're tired of just 'getting through the day'

  • You want a clear way of moving forward

  • You're ready to start rebuilding your life, at your pace, on your terms

Join Awaken Her Magic and let me show you how to build a life after divorce in midlife that you love too.

You don't need to have everything figured out you just need to start.

One simple payment. Lifetime access. No pressure, no overwhelm just a clear next step.

What if I'm under 45?

If this resonates with you and you think that it would be helpful then you're welcome to come in.

What if I wasn't married but I'm coming out of a long relationship?

If you've recently come out a long relationship, you recognise yourself in the words on this page and you feel that this could help, then you're welcome here.

How much is it?

Click the link to buy and the price is there. You can pay in full or there's a 3 pay option

Is there a time limit?

You take the course at your own pace. Some elements may take longer as you work through your feelings. There's no right or wrong timescale.

I'm busy, how much time will it take?

Each of the 5 Rs is broken up into a series of 5 minute videos so you can watch in bet sized chunks. Everything is easy to work through so that you can binge it like Netflix or dip in and out when you have a few minutes.

What if I have another question that you haven't answered?

Find me on Instagram and Facebook as Awaken Her Magic or on TIkTok as LifeAfterDivorceAt50 and send me a message there.

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